An easier first hello starts with a clear choice.
Come in with a little curiosity. A random video chat gives you the surprise of meeting someone new; choosing a profile gives you a detail to start from. Both can become a conversation with a face, a voice and a little room to settle in.
Think about how you want to feel when the conversation begins. Explore the pace of 1 on 1 video chat, then follow the steps below to choose a person, prepare your camera and make your first move.
Two ways to meet.
| Your next step | Choose this route | What you will see |
|---|---|---|
| Meet someone at random | Start matching | Video, Audio and Text options on the matching screen |
| Choose someone first | Browse women | Profiles, language options and Popular, Online and New tabs |
| Talk to a specific woman | Open her profile | Video Chat and Message actions |
Choose a random match or a profile.
For a spontaneous introduction, choose Start matching. On the next screen, select Video and use the central Start control when you are ready. That screen is the place to check the matching allowance available to your account.
If you would rather choose who to talk to, open Browse women. Explore the Online, Popular or New tabs and use the language options to narrow the list. Open a profile to read more about someone before choosing your next action.
Get comfortable before you begin.
Rest your phone or computer where the camera is near eye level. Put a window or soft lamp in front of you, check the background you are sharing, and keep headphones nearby.
When your browser asks to use the camera and microphone, allow access for the conversation. Check both permissions if the picture or sound needs attention. A steady Wi-Fi or mobile connection helps you settle into the call.
Make your next move from her profile.
A profile lets you see more than a single photo. Look at the languages, profile information and available content, then choose the interaction that interests you.
Use Video Chat for a face-to-face conversation or Message to begin with text. Read any displayed call rate or coin cost before confirming a paid action. The app shows the options currently available for that person.
Give the first conversation a simple starting point.
Introduce yourself, smile, and ask one question you would enjoy answering too. Music, a favorite meal or a small highlight from today can give you a natural opening.
Listen for a detail worth following. If she mentions a hobby, ask how she got into it; if she names a favorite place, ask what she likes about being there. Share a short story of your own so the conversation goes both ways.
Start with the visitor experience.
You can enter the browsing and matching screens without first completing a sign-up form. SkibbelGirl creates a visitor account as you enter to support the session.
Use the profile and account options in the app when you want to manage your details. Messages is where your conversations come together after you have started talking to people.
Your questions.
How do I start 1v1 video chat with someone I choose?
Browse women, open a profile that interests you, and choose its Video Chat option. Review any displayed cost and allow the camera and microphone when prompted.
Where do I choose Video rather than Audio or Text?
Open Start matching and choose Video on the matching screen before using Start.
How can I find someone who speaks English?
Open Browse women and select English from the language options, then explore the matching profiles.
YOUR NEXT HELLO
Make room for
someone new.
Bring a little curiosity and see where the first conversation takes you.
Start matching